
The happy couple, Hubert and Kalisa– both 21 years old and together since 2014 — euthanized in 2020
Good Morning, God
I saw this photo and identified! My wonderful husband, Kit, and I have been married for 64 years. And although I would have to say that our quality of life is not what it used to be — it is still more than enough. And as for the LA Zoo euthanizing them because of growing age related problems — I am taking it personally.
First of all, were they complaining? In pain? Just how diminished does life have to get before it is a “kindness” to spare them further decline? I am very uncomfortable about yielding my say in this matter.
Secondly, was it a “kindness” to have them die together — to spare them a time of grieving? As for me, I am coming to appreciate grief. Memories may be bittersweet but they provide a time for giving thanks for the loved one. A time for review and rejoicing . . . as well as a heaping of sorrow and regret.
So, speaking as an “aging lioness” I am saddened at folks in authority making these decisions. Although, ask any owner of an aging dog — and they will tell you what a difficult decision it is to make. Still, as a human, I am reluctant to turn over my say in the matter.
I think Hubert, could have grieved . . . and found another one to love.
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