Pondering Lent – Choosing the Hard

A tall cactus "family" at Kapiolani Community College

Good Morning God, IT’S ASH WEDNESDAY!  The start of Lent. The season in which we try to enter into to a closer relationship with you.

Traditionally, we do this by giving up something. My husband (lovingly referred to as Pope Kit by a friend) really gets into the GIVE IT UP mindset.  I think it must be the Scots heritage out of New England.  Let’s see, no alcohol, no caffeine, no sugar containing desserts — and I accompany him on this journey.  Although, I did “strike back” this year by pointing out HE should also give up the morning TV business news (cacophony!)  Much to my DELIGHT he agreed.

But, I personally don’t hold with the minor deprivation theory . . . is this suffering along with Jesus . . . I don’t think so, God.  I mean, wanting to become closer to YOU ought to involve OBEYING with ABANDON!  Wild GIVING!  Outrageous FORGIVING!  That would certainly turn Lent on its head.

Giving up chocolate (although, I am) seems to be one end of a continuum that ends with Thomas Becket and his hair shirt . . . self flaggellation and stuff like that at the far end.  Voluntary suffering seems somehow to miss the goal of being remade.

Ah, but the voluntary embracing of HARD . . . now that makes sense to me as a useful exercise.  So, perhaps, if I look at it that way — it won’t seem so much like embracing cacti!

Please, God, help me TRUST YOU enough to OBEY YOU.  And for me what is REALLY HARD, isn’t the chocolate — it is SETTING ASIDE A DAY OF REST.  Funny, isn’t it, how addicted our world is to BUSY!  Or maybe sad is a better word.  Help us ALL, O God, PLEASE.

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Posted in busy, cacti, choosing HARD, pondering the purpose of Lent
One comment on “Pondering Lent – Choosing the Hard
  1. pulelehua says:

    I was so worried you would want to give up breakfast at Kahala.. I could do zippys but.. so love the littel gifts of loving God’s world. I think I must have a day a week with no computer, no facebook, reading, praying being with God. maybe even writing a bit.

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