More on Blessing

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Good Evening, God!

I’m back after doing a few minutes of Blessing You “with all that is within me.” (Psalm 103:1) And I realize that blessing You is putting Everything in Perspective. That enlarged perspective is having a funny effect on me. The small details of my life matter more — in that everything matters — and I matter. Thus my delight in this photo of a yellow hibiscus that I took on my morning hike.

Meanwhile, the Apocalyptic Future that has been waking me at 3:00 a.m. is being muted by my growing awareness of how much I do not know!  In spite of how easy it is to connect the knowable dots —  I am becoming more aware of the reality that there is SO MUCH I do not know! Actually, just considering the billions of galaxies is dizzying. Quantum Fields make me numb!

So, back to the small. Yesterday, I named my Solar Plexus as the site of my Blessing activity. Today, I looked up Solar Plexus and it is a real hub for a lot of nerves. Amazing! We Do have Amazing bodies! And I am tickled to think that my wild guess might have been pretty good.

I’m smiling at myself, God. Because, even being a Very Small Being, I still enjoy learning and trying to understand.  I am glad You made us that way!

Today, I was still focused on Blessing You . . . tomorrow I will venture into Blessing me. That is definitely counter cultural!

 

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A New Look at Blessing

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Good Evening, God!

Look what I stumbled upon! This Thanksgiving holiday I took it into my head to review, sort and donate some of my books. I have a lot of books. It took me all day to empty four book cases, oil them and then fill the largest of them. Then I rested. The books rested on beds, floors and desks. Five bags of books have gone off to our local library. I’m almost done.

But, the reward for me was discovering this book — The Miracle and Power of Blessing — by Maurice Berquist. I got it years ago and loved it. I’m pretty sure that at the time I tried to practice what I learned. But, not much remained!

So, here I am having another chance to absorb and practice the ideas in this book which is based on Psalm 103:1-4.which begins with
                               Bless the Lord Oh my soul, let all that is within me bless the Lord.
When I worked on blessing You this afternoon, I realized that the effort seemed to be coming from my solar plexus . . . not my mind or my heart. It seemed as if the Part of me that Blesses is Older . . . more Primal.

I am unsettled by that thought, God.  Can it be that our Old Reptilian Brain wasn’t just vicious and red of tooth and claw?  Could it be that it can Bless as well? That idea really surprises me! And after all the complaining I have done to You about humans having Too Much Old Brain . . . I realize I owe You an apology!!!

Well, Duh!

So, now I’m going downstairs to “practice” blessing You for a few more minutes. More on this tomorrow!

 

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Valuing Friends and Fellow Countrymen

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Good Afternoon, God!

I am glad to be here — sitting at my computer — AWARE of Your Presence. You are always present . . . but I am usually UNAWARE.

So, God, when I looked at this photo of Bergen, Norway I thought of our friend Nina Kay and smiled. Neither Time nor Distance have eroded our friendship. But, alas, after this dreadful election, I was afraid that Differing Opinions MIGHT erode friendship.

But, yesterday, as part of my “recovering” from the election, I realized that I had been caught up in a Web of Labeling. Sheesh! We Americans ARE Good People! In fact, I believe that all of us humans are basically Good. But I had lapsed into judging and labeling. Labeling opens the doors to terribly destructive behavior. And labeling has abounded.

It is now a few days later and I am puzzling over — How can I respond in a positive way?

The first thing I feel called to do is to clean up my Own Inner Landscape. I can’t just say that Others have been projecting their fears and angers out into the world. I have to look at how I have been doing that too. And — as best I can — STOP IT.

The next thing to do is to LISTEN and seek to understand WHY half of the country chose another path. I need to respectfully begin a dialog. Dang! Reality seems like one of those optical illusions — is it a vase? Or is it two faces? The drawing stays the same. It is just a question of what the viewer makes background . . . or foreground.

Well, God. That is a start! Please open my heart and mind . . . and yes, God, that will take faith, hope and love . . . all three.

 

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Hope . . . Give us HOPE

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Good Morning, God!

So, our Great  Political Tug of War is officially over. Thank You for making it CLEAR to me that I was to accept the result — trusting in You and Your Grace and Love.

Of course, You made that extra clear to me because exactly 50 years ago as a 17 year old, I reacted to the 1956 election loss with great anger and an act of Heart Hate.  Caring DEEPLY about a result — caring deeply about having our own Right Way — makes us so vulnerable to the evil of hate. Certainly I was. Well, I still am. So I appreciate Your Protective Warning. I am focusing instead on Vaclav Havel’s quote about Hope.

[Hope] is not the conviction that something will turn out well,
but the certainty that something makes sense,
regardless of how it turns out.

That is how I see my HOPE of our coming together for a country that talks together and works together.  With Your Help, I will not give up on that hope.

 

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Sunsets and A New Day

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Good Morning, God!

I have finally asked You, God — what is Your desire For me?

And it seems That for now
I am to be about The activity of

Welcoming You
RECEIVING 

WOW!

That’s it for now?
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And I did my Centering Prayer this morning
And I did Receive
I could “see” My Tap Root

Deepening  Extending  Connecting  Reaching out
And REJOICING

So I am /have been Presented with my Body
To Love, Respect, Care for And Listen to

And then to see this, My Body As analogous
To The Body Politic

You, Oh Magnificent
Long for us to hear

Your Song — so far beyond words
The Song You sang

When You created Worlds
And Us

Thanks be to Thee

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Reproduction and the Election

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Good Morning, God!

I know that some of my Christian sisters are hearing from Trump supporters: ”GET OUT AND VOTE SO WE CAN TAKE BACK OUR COUNTRY.”  I guess to them that means NO MORE LEGAL ABORTIONS.

Trump is offering Christian voters a Supreme Court that would outlaw abortions.
That is the Bait.

I guess the Party of Trump is hoping that this single issue will blind us to the fact that Trump himself and his proposed policies are the very opposite of our Christian values.

I think of how Trump has made fun of handicapped reporters,
calling women fat pigs, slobs, and dogs
called Mexicans criminals and rapists ,
and called poor people “losers.”

Spewing hate and mocking people is not what we Christians believe in.

Jesus makes it clear in Matthew 25 that how we treat others
is how we treat him.

Doesn’t Jesus tell us to care for the poor
and welcome the strangers in our midst?

It isn’t just Trump’s hatefulness — it is his policies:
The Wall
The ban on Muslims entering America
tax policies that will benefit the super rich.

I think about how Jesus said the greatest commandment is to love our God with all our heart, mind and strength. And to love our neighbor as ourselves.

To me this means voting for a woman who respects all of us:
Hillary Clinton.

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A brave pastor speaks up

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God Morning, God!

I’ve been praying and fasting — something I don’t remember doing since the weekend before 9/11 — and this feels THAT serious. I haven’t wanted to be explicitly political on this blog. But, I woke up this Saturday knowing that I have to speak up. But, with so much to say the question was WHAT to say. Then I found an article about this message from pastor John Pavlovitz in the Raleigh, North Carolina area.

Pastor John Pavlovitz attempted to spare no feelings when he warned women about Trump, his supporters, and how those individuals truly view a woman’s role in society:

“To them, you aren’t separate but equal, as they might claim from the pulpit. You may be made in the image of God, but not in the same way that they are.

You are inferior

You are lesser than

You are Adam’s rib meat

 baby machines

meal preparers

arm candy

pleasure tools designed by God for men to use as they desire.

Some of these men of God will have the guts to actually say this, others will simply prove it to you. They are proving it to you now. Listen to them.”

Pavlovitz says in their twisted patriarchal world, the there are men on the Christian Right who think all men act like Trump, all men talk this way, all men think this way, but adds, “No, we don’t—but they do.”

A line was drawn in the proverbial sand by Pavlovitz who harpooned the hypocrisy of Trump’s supporters. Trump claims to respect women, as do those who are in favor of his candidacy. Yet, that does not rationally follow for if it were true, and if these individuals did have respect for women, they’d dump Trump immediately.

“If these professed men of God truly acknowledged your inherent value, they would be fiercely defending you right now, instead of Donald Trump. They would be openly condemning such disregard for the image of God within you, and sharply severing their ties with him—but many of them they aren’t. They’re making excuses. They’re blaming the victim. They’re doubling down. They’re digging in their manly heels right now.”

The good minister pulled back the curtain to expose the sickening philosophy of these individuals. They care not about women as human beings, but consider them to be mere disposable objects to be used for their own nefarious purposes:

“The real reason they’re doing it is that to them you aren’t worth defending — not your intelligence or your gifts or your worth. As a result, your consent isn’t really a concern either; you may have noticed that. It’s why, in their minds sexual misconduct almost never occurs, and when it does, it’s because you were dressed too provocatively or sending mixed signals, or because their motives were misinterpreted. They don’t believe you have the right to say no or to be offended. If anything, they believe you should be flattered. This is the hubris of men who think God made you as an accessory.”

Me again God. I’d so like believe this is true of only a FEW men. But, then I think of Bill Cosby. I think of sex trafficking  I think about young girls molested by family members. And I realize THIS IS REAL. And You do not like it.

So, I’m speaking up.

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Venus de Milo and Me

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Good Morning, God!

New ideas have been engulfing me these last few days . . . or maybe I am just OPEN to receiving them? So, in sort of random order — because we women don’t live on a 2D LINE — 1) my need to adequately rest and renew myself.

Up until a day or two ago this need for rest was squished down into sleep. But now I have an Expanded image.I see this more comprehensively . . . as Spinning Thread for my day . . . with the need to spin extra thread for Repair Work and Renewal Play.

And my image of doing this is Venus De Milo. Venus, the Goddess of Love. And here she is — arms out to welcome her lover. But, that old image has been updated in my mind, thanks in large part to Elizabeth Barber’s book, Women’s Work: The First 20,000 Years.  Now I see this Venus as holding a hand weaving set — spinning thread. Thread for the weaving of fabrics. Thread for the weaving of her life/our lives. And now she is not just the Goddess of Loving others . . . but the Goddess of Loving and Caring for myself.

WOW! Now THAT is a REFRAME!

Seeing this I am now — even more — cherishing my Centering Prayer times . . . my long jogs up my hill alone with myself. . . my times with my wonderful husband, Kit and beloved family and friends. And my SLEEP and NAP times.  All the times in which I am about my basic and essential business of Spinning Thread for the Fabric of my Life. I LOVE these images, God. I love having an ongoing primary activity that I can now visualize and therefore better respect and care for.

I’m smiling. Thank You!  And as for the other thoughts?  . . . Tomorrow.

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Healing Grief

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Good Evening, God!

Give sorrow words . . . Shakespeare said that centuries ago. But, God, we don’t. As for me, I didn’t know how. So I pushed it down . . . focused on all the Good Stuff . . . practiced Gratitude. And all of that is GOOD . . . but it isn’t enough.

So sorrow waits. Waits to be acknowledged. Respected. Heard. And then given expression. Shakespeare said words. But there are many ways of expressing grief. One friend after losing her son in a storm in the seas off of Alaska went to a dance class called Sweating Your Grief.

Sweating our grief. Yes! Sweating can be a way of expressing grief. And so, too, is running. Perhaps, in a culture that has taught us not to be Cry Babies . . . that is the only way some of us have. In my friend’s case she ACKNOWLEDGED her grief. She RESPECTED it. She knew she had to work with it!

Expressing grief isn’t what I thought it was. It isn’t about whining or complaining — those words come more from the Mind. A true and healing expression of grief comes when the Heart speaks . . . and when the Body weeps the salt of tears and sweat.

 

 

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The Dark Side of “Forgiving”

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Good Day, God!

Forgiving is an incredibly powerful tool for good. That’s why it is so upsetting to me to hear it misused,  misunderstood and misapplied.

  • Forgiving is NOT forgetting
  • Forgiving is NOT condoning
  • Forgiving is NOT ignoring
  • Forgiving is NOT excusing

Those definitions have been used for years to un-empower the people who were being harmed. THAT is not what Jesus meant or wanted. Jesus who LOVES us commands us to CARE for the LEAST of THESE. And that would mean for us to care for . . ourselves . . . each other . . . we are all included in the “Least.”

And in my mind, CARING means we CONFRONT predators — we bring their predatory behavior to their attention — and we pray for them to be healed . . . or to WANT to be healed — and to know that You love them.

If we had a very sick and very contagious individual running around infecting others . . . we would not recommend forgiving him or her. We would recommend an isolation ward.

Sigh. I feel better now, God. That just really WANTED to be SAID!

Oh, and just a word of what Forgiveness is truly about: Forgiving others spares us from the consequences of living out of an unforgiving heart. 

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