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On SEEING — large and small — near and far

Good Morning, God These few leaves — lit by the early morning sun — caught my eye. So small. Insignificant. But beautiful. Then just a day later, I was out on my front patio at 4:00 a.m. searching the night

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Posted in beauty, connecting, mental maps, Perspective, perspectives, Planets, seeing, taking time to focus, time

On Discovering — I am Bereaved!

Good Morning, God Well, this becoming SOLO after 65 years together — is filled with Surprises! At first I thought I was doing just fine. Actually, after the “waiting”. After the intensity of having to admit / face Kit is

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Posted in Bereaved, connecting, disruption, going THROUGH the sorrow, Grief, pain, Sorrows of the Deep

A Stream in the Desert — Streams in our Heart

Energy waxes and wanes nowadays. But this Sunday I set off to see the sunrise and kept on walking all the way down to the bottom of our Hidden Valley area. And there is the Wes Miller Park. This has

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Posted in connecting, gifts and giftings, Gifts of the Spirit, God's gifts, Hearing, hearing myself, people as gifts, seeing, Spiritual Gifts

A Slowly Unfolding Series of Surprises

Good Morning, God It is just shy of one year since we moved to Tucson. And just a day or two over six months since I became a surviving spouse. Unless you have become one — there is no way

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Posted in A difficult freedom, a matter of scale, connecting, disappearing routines, Disorientation, Grief, loss, Rituals, Surprises

Florence Nightingale: Upsetter of Men in Charge

Florence Nightingale took on the generals and doctors during the Crimean War of 1853-56 and she said:  “There is not an official who would not burn me like Joan of Arc if he could.” This is the response humans in

Posted in Change Agents, Changing, connecting, mental maps, Power corrupts, The difficulty of changing

Now I can SEE how I FELT

Good Morning God, I came across this photo a few days ago. I had taken it in the Tucson Medical Center, 9/27/24.That was 3 months before Kit died. At that point I was intellectually aware of his destination.But, emotionally, I

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Posted in a hand up, a prayer for healing, connecting, Feeling our feelings, Moving from WE to ME, Thinking and Feeling

I said it — but I didn’t MEAN IT

Good Morning God, Having been married to my Wonderful Husband for 65 years — I did learn a few things that totally surprised me. Some of them were HOW different we were. And every once in a while I discovered

Posted in connecting

A Time out of Time

Good Morning God, This photo is of Kit on August 11, 2024. We are flying back to Tucson from a weekend in Costsa Mesa to attend the Celebration of Life for our dear sister in law — Barba Nurse. We

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Posted in a hand up, connecting, gratitude, LOVE, Lovingkindness, thankfulness, Thanksgiving!, the gift of persistent love

Adjusting …and readjusting

Good Morning, God This is a photo of me . . . sitting on our front patio . . . enjoying the reflections of both our back patio and the Santa Catalina mountains. It comes close to capturing the multiple

Posted in adjusting, awareness, Balancing and adjustments, Choosing to respond, connecting, Grief, LOVE, personal responsibility, Responding, responding to "nudges", responding to God's Spirit, The daily details of love, The Endless Flow of God's Love, Unnoticed Changes

An Illuminated Cactus

Good Evening, God Having had contact with a prickly pear fruit I have a new respect for cactus. Water is scarce. They contain water — therefore they must protect themselves. With the prickly pear I was fooled. It had visible

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Posted in Accepting Imperfection, accepting my need for help, acknowledging my need for prayer, adjusting, Adventures, connecting, God's Time, moving, Needed Repair Time, recovery time, time, Wanting a protected time

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Brené Brown

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Rachel Naomi Remen

chatting and sometimes, listening

A Moment with God

chatting and sometimes, listening

Sacred Dance Guild Journal

Since 1958 articles by members & guests offer news about activities, history, Sacred Dance practices, profiles of Sacred Dancers, choreography, images & illustrations.

Victoria Paulsen

How to Step In -- Substitute Teaching