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A Long Earthly Journey, Completed

But best of all, Mom was a Loving Listener — not just to me, but to countless friends.

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Posted in appreciation, connecting, LOVE, Mothers, relationships, Transitions, web of life

Three Father’s Day Gifts

Actually, that Secret Key is a gift I’d love to give to all men. It seems that our Western Culture is a bit weak on Warm Emotional Encouragement. It’s a mystery to me why people think logic and reason are going to be useful levers in changing behavior.

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Posted in Books, connecting, Families, Marathons, relationships

My Crossing the Finish Line is Just the Beginning

And the idea of giving love gifts — making deposits in each other’s Love Bank Account — has been particularly useful for Kit and me.

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Posted in Giving, LOVE, Motivation, relationships

Organizing my Being — the Female Way

And I feel as if June is helping me Organize my Being — just as my Professional Organizer is helping me organize my home. Organize my Being? Yes, that is the phrase that popped into my mind and it feels right.

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Posted in awareness, people as gifts, relationships, self care as self compassion and humility, Uncategorized

Lighting the Night . . . Waves of Change

People gathering together to talk and think can have a “tinder-like” quality.

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Posted in Centering Prayer, Changing, relationships

Kit flies off to give Focused Positive Attention to our Daughters

the smile and warm approval that flowed out from the checker was amazing! It was a beautiful example of focused positive attention!

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Posted in acknowledging another's existence, appreciation, health, relationships

Character — Doing the Right Thing

Good Morning, God! I want to get this blog out early to share this great story. Sara Tucholsky was a senior playing softball for Western Oregon. She’s only 5’2″ and she’d never hit a home run. But she did hit

Posted in a hand up, relationships, respect, Rethinking, The gift to SEE others

Respecting Others: The CORE of Good Manners

Good Morning, God! A friend loaned me the book, Essential Manners for Couples, by Peter Post (yes, the great grandson of The Emily Post.) Actually, it was more like an “assignment,” so I have been dutifully chugging along, about one

Posted in relationships, respect, web of life

On Being Between — Honolulu and Boston

Good Whenever, God! I am HAPPILY still IN BETWEEN Honolulu and Boston — My Body is in Boston — and it is slowly “gathering” the rest of me. This is a NEW experience, God. Normally, I “Soldier On” following along

Posted in A God given diversity, Balancing and adjustments, hearing myself, relationships, respect, Self-Respect

Dining in Little Tehran with my Daugher

Good Morning, God! It was Goodbye Tucson and Hello Little Tehran — or Tehrangeles as the hub of the half million Iranians in Los Angeles is called. Suz and I picked the Flame Restaurant and asked for the table set

Posted in appreciation, daughters, LOVE, people as gifts, relationships, thankfulness, the joy of sharing, the layers of life

Blogs I Follow
Brené Brown

chatting and sometimes, listening

Rachel Naomi Remen

chatting and sometimes, listening

A Moment with God

chatting and sometimes, listening

Sacred Dance Guild Journal

Since 1958 articles by members & guests offer news about activities, history, Sacred Dance practices, profiles of Sacred Dancers, choreography, images & illustrations.

Victoria Paulsen

How to Step In -- Substitute Teaching

Brené Brown

chatting and sometimes, listening

Rachel Naomi Remen

chatting and sometimes, listening

A Moment with God

chatting and sometimes, listening

Sacred Dance Guild Journal

Since 1958 articles by members & guests offer news about activities, history, Sacred Dance practices, profiles of Sacred Dancers, choreography, images & illustrations.

Victoria Paulsen

How to Step In -- Substitute Teaching